22 Times She Really Liked You And Then You Blew It

errr…guilty :/

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1. When you went from planning and being decisive, to being flaky, indecisive and incapable of making up your mind. Even if it was just a small lapse, if it lasted long enough it sends mixed messages and she’ll be done with you before you have a chance to come back from it.

2. Asking straight out if you’re going to have sex three minutes into the hook up. There’s no better way to kill a great first night together than jumping the gun and asking if you’re going to get laid.

3. When you’re flirting with her at a party, it’s going really well, and then it becomes clear that you’re speaking directly to her boobs as you get progressively more inebriated.

4. Anytime you invite yourself up to her apartment. If she wants you to come in, she’ll say so.

5. If you decline her invitation up to…

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The One Technique To Determine Who Should Be In Your Scene

This is brilliant.

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I want to be under water and float and not move.

I love that feeling. Water completely surrounding me, I make every part of my body go limp. Thoughts rise up and create little thought bubbles above me on the surface.

I don’t like to think too hard. When I float, I enjoy thinking of nothing.

Outsource my thoughts to the air. To future breaths.

Asking for advice is like outsourcing your thoughts. “Asking for advice” seems weak.

But it’s actually the most powerful tool in your arsenal as a creative, an entrepreneur, a friend, a lover, a fighter.

Advice is the world in another person’s eyes. What a beautiful thing to see through everyone else’s eyes.

I was talking to Mark Ford the other day. He’s helped build over 100 different businesses. Maybe more. When you create wealth for so many people you lose track.

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17 Things That Happen When You Have Zero Flirting Game

15. On more than one occasion, you’ve watched a friend successfully flirt with someone, and wanted to scream, “HOW DO YOU DO THAT???” But then an attractive person smiles at you and jasdfaiufnkasdjnf what are words.

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1. When you’re trying to flirt with someone, you’ll attempt to relate to the other person by expressing interest in their interests and end up losing a bit of yourself in the process. Oh, yes I love sportz! Like football, and basketball, and baseball, all of the above! My favorite part is when they score baskets!

2. As a result, you try and show more of your personality, end up overcompensating, and still don’t give an accurate representation of yourself. Yes, I have seen the Lord of the Rings films. In fact, I can speak the Elvish Sindarin fairly well, and I know some phrases of the Black Speech, but I think we both know it’s a bad idea for me to utter those…

3. Any movements you make while flirting seem jerky and unnatural, because you meticulously thought out every joint movement in your head…

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Here’s Why You’re Still Single Based On Your Myers-Briggs Personality Type


You’re single because: You haven’t found anyone you love more than you love Reality TV.

You’ll get into a relationship when: Someone intrigues you enough to pull you out of your shell and pursue him or her full-force.

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You’re single because: You have a savior complex and keep going for wounded people who can’t properly love you back.

You’ll get into a relationship when: You’re finally attracted to someone who has his or her shit together and doesn’t need to be bullied into a relationship.


You’re single because: You’re having way too much fun sleeping around.

You’ll get into a relationship when: You start feeling bad about how long your ISFJ hookup has been doing your laundry for you, at which point you’ll finally ask them out.


You’re single because: You have impossibly high standards and you’d probably just marry yourself if it were legal.

You’ll get into a relationship when: You decide that it is practical to do so, at which point you will assess potential suitors for mate value and propose to the most logical subject.


You’re single because: You smothered the…

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12 Struggles All Introverted Hopeless Romantics Understand

Yep. This is just SO spot-on!

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1. You are a damn Casanova online, but…when you make the switch to IRL? Ugh. You clam up and go silent. Maybe a few nervous giggles every now and then, but you’re basically mute. You long for the days of AIM. You could spit some serious game on AIM. Let’s be honest, SmarterChild was smitten with you.

2. Daydreams are somewhat of an addiction. It’s just so much safer to live in a world you create, one you are in complete control of. You know it will only do so much for you, but it’s become a crutch. It’s a comfort, and when there’s so much uncertainty in the real world it becomes all too easy to just stay in your own fantasies.

3. You choose Netflix romcoms instead of actually going out. Sure, you’ll go mix and mingle on occasion, but you’re much more…

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Distance Doesn’t Matter, I Still Think About You All Day Long

this speaks to me, more than i’ll ever admit..

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I never thought I’d say “yes” to a long-distance relationship, but when you cupped my face and said sweetly, “I really don’t want to break up,” I knew I was going to agree to anything you asked. I didn’t want to break up either. It seems painful to end a relationship, not because you’ve fallen out of love or done something unforgivable, but solely because your bodies are not in the same location. Our hearts are in this, I thought. We can do it.

But it’s hard. For many reasons. When we were together all the time, I thought about you in a warm, pleasant way but with no urgency. I knew I’d see you soon. Now that it’s never quite guaranteed, I’ve started being unable to think about anything else. You invade my thoughts and color everything. I’ve become desperate.

I thought maybe after we were forced to…

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Sobre Rojo (Episode 1): Ang Balita ni Tiya Olga

Brilliant adaptation of the Sarah Waters’ “Fingersmith” in Filipino ///

Ang T-Bird ay Ako

Disclaimer: I apologize for any mistakes regarding the history. I will try my best to remember my History of the Philippines classes and be accurate.  I’m writing this story with the thought that my twelve-year old self would delight at finding something like this on the internet. Having said that, I write what I want to read. I hope you would love to read this story as well. Admittedly, there are not much lesbian-themed stories written in Filipino, at least from my internet searches. I offer this so that the search for such stories would not be as frustrating as before, especially for young Filipina lesbians and bisexuals, or those just starting to discover themselves.

I apologize for the grammatical errors as well. I have a particular difficulty with ‘ng’ and ‘nang’ , I promise to improve in time. I hope you enjoy the story and I would love to…

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